I don’t really want one. I prefer cremation or becoming a tree or something. But for real, if I had a gravestone, I would like it to read: “I wish I had no strong morals because life would have been way more fun”.
And that’s the truth. It could have still been just as shitty but I could have made much more out of it, enjoying it. Don’t hang onto your old selves. We only have one life and you can’t go back.